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I've been dating this girl now for 3 month and we became really attached. I think she has really fallen in love with me. The bad thing is she will leave the country to work abroad soon without any prospect of coming back. Having been in long distance relationships I can tell this doesn't really work for me. Also my girl starts telling me more frequently *I Love You* recently, which does not make things easier. I know it has to end soon, so I never respond to this because I don't want to hurt her later. What should I say? Do you have an idea how to handle this situation appropriately since I really care for her and do not want to be too brash.
Top ideas to use in your opening introduction letter are express your interest to your potential ‘date’ using your writing to express why you are contacting that person. Reveal to this person how you propose to meet their needs in their search for a friend, companion or lover using expressive words such as ‘I intend to’ or ‘I would like to’ or even ‘I have been searching through the classifieds and found your profile appealing to me because’. Give just a few hints about your where you are located, without revealing to much about your without determining whether the two of you will continue a conversation. Use phrases like, ‘I am from the east coast’ or ‘I live south of California’ or other such general terms, revealing your location to a particular location through later conversations. Your initial contact with a proposed ‘date’ should be about the type of person you are searching for, why you have been using resources online to search for someone special, and what you are hoping to gain from a relationship from this person with personal details revealed through additional conversations as your ‘relationship’ trust grows.

 
This is because women come *pre-wired* with an internal template of what comprises a desirable mate, and a set of emotional trigger buttons that, when pushed, create that powerful emotional response called ATTRACTION that compels her to mate with the man who triggers it.

Most men have no idea that this mechanism exists or how to trigger it, so they do traditional *nice guy* things like buying dinners, gifts, and flowers... and giving women compliments... and calling them all the time (which usually have the OPPOSITE of the desired effect when used too much, and too early on).

As I got to know more and more guys who were REALLY GOOD with women, I started to see that they weren't afraid to make fun of attractive women, bust on them, and even challenge them... but it was always done in a VERY FUNNY, even charming way.

At first I just assumed that it was the fact that this pattern was just a technique that my friends were using to make conversation.

Only after really paying attention, trying out this technique myself quite a bit, and LOOKING CLOSELY AT THE ACTUAL RESPONSES I WAS GETTING did I begin to realize the UNBELIEVABLY POWERFUL EMOTIONAL RESPONSES that this one concept was generating.

And after working on it, testing it, refining it, and studying the finer points about women, men, and the whole *mating process* did I begin to really understand how well this worked.

 
The double standard is that there is this MYTH that somehow a woman’s affection is worth more than a man’s. As if men enjoyed women but women did not enjoy men. Why do I say this? Simple: Most men go OUT OF THEIR WAY to get a woman’s attention and affection, buying endless dinners, doing favors, giving compliments, endless respect, even if the woman is NOT interested! Or worse, even if the woman is MIStreating them.

Do women do this for men? Of course not.

If you are a guy who grew up observing this phenomenon, it would be easy to get the wrong idea and think that women need to be persuaded, tricked, impressed, appeased, or bribed in order to be sexual with a man.

 

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You don't say whether she was with male and female coworkers, but I'll assume the group had more than one female in it. If this is the case, your best option is always to have a wingman who can break the ice for you. You get one of the guys in your little group to go over and pretend as though he knows another girl in her group. (Please choose a decent wingman for this, too. You don't want anyone to do an embarrassing lead-in.) You accompany him. While he chats the other gal up, you introduce yourself to the lady you saw. Say something like, *Hey, you're not going to try one of those lines on me, like 'what's your sign, baby' are you?* And give a sly smile.

Remember, always use your friends to help out. You'll be doing them and you a favor. Chances are, most of them are dying to meet new ladies, and you can look like the stud who has the balls to go out and get them. Enlist one in advance and have them ready to fly intercept for you